Do you think all Christian are phobic bigots for their belief?

there are Christians who have friends who are gay...not all Christians are as you are brainwashed to believe...i can accept any person...but i don't have to accept all of their actions...can non-Christians accept Christians as people...or will they reject them for their belief...like some Christian reject others...what makes non-Christians any different if they accuse the Christians of being bigoted haters...if they themselves treat Christians with bigotry and hatred...