How many 'look before they leap'?

Glad to see there are others out there that know LIFE isn't a fairytale. A marriage is a commitment that last for a lifetime. You give and take, its a partnership. Or at least that's how I was brought up. Now a days too many people get married for the wrong reason and then split up. STUPID!!!!!!! I knew what the vows meant. I have bad days with my husband!!! I also have speechless times were I'm in complete AWE with him.